I recently saw a list of the world’s best places to retire in 2014 and it got me thinking more broadly about this issue of aging in place – it’s not just about your house. A wider question is whether you want to retire in your current country , city or location. Moving country or even city is quite a major undertaking at any stage but becomes increasingly challenging as you get older. We’re not just talking about the physical aspects of the move but the emotional aspects as well. So what questions do you want to ask before making that major move?
1. What facilities do I really need now? Cities and countries may have an appealing list of activities, spaces and so on but if you are unlikely to utilize many of them does it make sense to make a major move. If you are an indoors person more comfortable in curling up with a good book, then does it matter that there are great hiking trails and parks in the new location?
2. What facilities am I likely to need in the future? As we age we are likely to need more health facilities for example? I know many people who have a dream of retiring from their jobs in the city to move full time to the country. While country living may seem beautiful how far is it to the nearest doctor, clinic and so on? Will you feel comfortable or safe in a more isolated location as you get older or will you wish to be closer to other neighbors? Will you need to be close to public transportation to reduce reliance on your own vehicle if you do not or cannot drive?
3. How will my significant others be affected by it? Is your spouse as gung ho about the move as you are? What about children, grandchildren, siblings? Do they support the move? Will they visit? Can they visit? If you’re moving to another country for example visas may be required by family members who want to visit – Will they be able to get them? What about plane fare – can they afford to visit? Will they have the time from work or school to make these visits?
4. What will it realistically cost for me to move? There are clearly costs of relocation but move beyond those. If you are switching countries will you sell some of your possessions and then have to purchase on the other end? Will you require additional items that you don’t currently need such as warm weather clothing? If you are selling your house and purchasing a new one what is the market like in each location? In general it’s probably best to underestimate the sale price for your old house and overestimate the costs associated with your move.
5. Why am I really moving? What’s the motivation behind your move and will you achieve it? Before packing up and moving to be near relatives for example find out whether you will be wanted and included in their lives. Perhaps you’re moving because you had vowed to do so years ago. Perhaps you are lonely where you are but what will change with the move? Maybe it’s a good idea but maybe not. Dig deep and make sure that you really want to make the move.
Moving is expensive in terms of money, time and energy. A good move is worth it but if you haven’t thought through it you may live to regret it. Take the time to make the right decision for you, your pocket and your family.